Hear ye, hear ye: how can I tell if my child hears?

I just watched “The Miracle Worker” with my oldest son. This classic 1962 movie depicts Helen Keller, who was deaf and blind, struggling to understand language, with the help and supreme patience of her determined teacher Annie Sullivan.

As I watched the movie, I was reminded about how children depend on their senses to learn about the world. Starting today, Two Peds in a Pod will bring you periodic posts about the early development of senses. We start with hearing.

Unlike eyesight, which is limited at birth, babies are usually born with normal hearing. Before leaving the hospital after birth, or by two weeks of age, your newborn should receive a hearing test. Then, at every well child check, your child’s health care provider will ask you questions to confirm your child’s hearing remains the same.

Even though they are unable to localize where sound is coming from, newborns will startle to new or sudden sounds and their eyes will open wider in response to the sound of your voice. All babies babble, even deaf ones, but language progression will stop in children who cannot hear. By six months, kids usually babble one syllable at a time. By nine months, children will produce syllables that sound like whichever language they hear the most. At this point they should also respond to their name. Babies who fail to meet these milestones may do so because they cannot hear.

For older kids, hearing screening may be conducted in schools or the pediatrician’s office. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends formal hearing screens starting at four years old. These screening tests can detect subtle hearing loss that parents did not notice. Kids who fail the screen should have a more comprehensive hearing evaluation by an audiologist. Many kinds of hearing loss are either reversible or manageable. The earlier the diagnosis the better.

Sometimes speech, behavior, or attention problems are secondary to hearing difficulties. School aged children may mispronounce words because they cannot hear sounds clearly. These children commonly do not distinguish well between the “s,” “ch,” and “sh” sounds (please click here to review language development). Symptoms attributed to Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder such as difficulty focusing or inattentiveness may actually result from hearing loss. Some kids who “just don’t listen” to adults simply can’t hear well enough to follow directions.

As your child’s hearing loss progresses, you may notice your child’s language regresses, or that your child turns the volume up on the TV. Your child may accuse you of mumbling or ask you to often repeat questions. Although a common myth, a child who talks loudly is not necessarily deaf. After all, a child does not need to raise his own voice in order to understand himself.

Finally, I should mention signs of “selective hearing loss.” Many parents describe this form of “hearing loss” to me in the office. In these cases, a child does not hear her mom say “Clean your room,” yet hears her mom whisper “Let’s go out for ice cream.”

We address the topic of listening, as opposed to hearing, in our next post.

Julie Kardos, MD with Naline Lai, MD
©2011 Two Peds in a Pod®

It’s a gas! your young infant’s burps and farts

Gas is another topic most people don’t think much about until they have a newborn. Then suddenly gas becomes a huge source of parental distress, even though parents are not the ones with the gas. It’s the poor newborn baby who suffers, and as all parents know, our children’s suffering becomes OUR suffering.

So what to do?

First, I reassure you that ALL young babies are gassy. Yes, all. But some newborns are not merely fussy because of their gas. Some become fussy, ball up, grunt, turn red, wake up from a sound sleep, and scream because of their gas. In other words, some babies really CARE about their gas.

Remember, newborns spend nine months as a fetus developing in fluid, and have no experience with air until they take their first breath. Then they cry and swallow some air. Then they feed and swallow some air. Then they cry and swallow some more air. Eventually, some of the air comes up as a burp. To summarize: Living in Air=Gas Production.

Gas expelled from below comes from a different source. As babies drink formula or breast milk, some liquid in the intestines remains undigested, and the normal gut bacteria “eat” the food. The bacteria produce gas as a byproduct of their eating. Thus: a fart is produced.

The gas wants to escape, but young babies are not very good at getting out the gas. Newborns produce thunderous burps and expulsions out the other end. I still remember my bleary-eyed husband and I sitting on the couch with our firstborn. On hearing a loud eruption, we looked at each other and asked simultaneously, “Was that YOU?” Then looked at our son and asked “Was that HIM?”

Gas is a part of life. If your infant is feeding well, gaining weight adequately, passing soft mushy stools that are green, yellow, or brown but NOT bloody, white, or black (for more about poop, see our post The Scoop on Poop), then the grunting, straining, turning red, and crying with gas is harmless and does not imply that your baby has a belly problem or a formula intolerance. However, it’s hard to see your infant uncomfortable.

Here’s what to do if your young baby is bothered by gas:

Start feedings before your infant cries a long time from hunger. When infants cry from hunger, they swallow air. When a frantically hungry baby starts to feed, they will gulp quickly and swallow more air than usual. If your infant is wide awake crying and it’s been at least one or two hours from the last feeding, try to quickly start another feeding.
Burp frequently. If you are breastfeeding, watch the clock, breastfeed for five minutes, change to the other breast. As you change positions, hold her upright in attempt to elicit a burp, then feed for five more minutes on the second breast. Then hold your baby upright and try for a slightly longer burping session, and go return her to the first breast for at least five minutes, then back to the second breast if she still appears hungry. Now if she falls asleep nursing, she has had more milk from both breasts and some opportunities to burp before falling asleep.
If you are bottle feeding, experiment with different nipples and bottle shapes (different ones work better for different babies) to see which one allows your infant to feed without gulping too quickly and without sputtering. Try to feed your baby as upright as possible.
Hold your infant upright for a few minutes after feedings to allow for extra burps. If a burp seems stuck, lay her back down on her back for a minute and then bring her upright and try again.
To help expel gas from below, lay her on her back and pedal her legs with your hands. Give her tummy time when awake. Unlike you, a baby can not change position easily and may need a little help moving the gas out of their system.
If your infant is AWAKE after a feeding, place her prone (on her belly) after a feeding. Babies can burp AND pass gas easier in this position. PUT HER ONTO HER BACK if she starts to fall asleep or if you are walking away from her because she might fall asleep before you return to her. Remember, all infants should SLEEP ON THEIR BACKS unless your infant has a specific medical condition that causes your pediatrician to advise a different sleep position.
Parents often ask if changing the breast feeding mother’s diet or trying formula changes will help decrease the baby’s discomfort from gas. There is not absolute correlation between a certain food in the maternal diet and the production of gas in a baby. However, a nursing mom may find a particular food “gas inducing.” Remember that a nursing mom needs nutrients from a variety of foods to make healthy breast milk so be careful how much you restrict. Try any formula change for a week at a time and if there is no effect on gas, just go back to the original formula.
Do gas drops help? For flatulence, if you find that the standard, FDA approved simethecone drops (e.g. Mylicon Drops) help, then you can use them as the label specifies. If they do not help, then stop using them.

The good news? The discomfort from gas will pass. Gas discomfort typically peaks at six weeks and improves immensely by three months. At that point, even the fussiest babies tend to mellow. The next time your child’s gas will cause you distress won’t be until he becomes a preschooler and tells “fart jokes” at the dinner table in front of Grandma. Now THAT is a gas.

Julie Kardos, MD with Naline Lai, MD

Parents of newborns: get your Zzzzzs back

Recently I’ve seen some very tired parents of newborns in my office.

Sleep deprivation, while common, leaves you prone to emotional distress and more susceptible to illness. Driving sleep deprived is as dangerous as driving drunk. Lack of sleep can even cause brain wave patterns similar to those seen in people with seizures.

Ask for help. If you live near family, take them up on offers to cook a meal or come hold the baby while you take a nap during the day. If you don’t have friends or family to provide free help, look for local teens trying to earn some community service hours or volunteer seniors from your local house of worship or YMCA. For a relatively small expense you could probably pay a money-starved teen to complete some household chores or to babysit in your home while you, the parents, grab some much needed sleep. Remember, too, that this is the time to get to know the baby as a family member, not to entertain others. If the people standing in your kitchen are not willing to do the dishes, then point them to the door.

For a larger expense but sanity-saving measure, pay someone to help out overnight a few times a week, or ask a kind relative to sleep over. My husband and I still credit our neighbor, who helped us out some nights after our twins were born, for saving our marriage (sleep deprivation does not enhance a spousal relationship). Even breastfeeding moms can make this work. The helper should wake mom to breastfeed, then take the baby away so the mom can go immediately back to sleep. Meanwhile the helper burps, changes, soothes, and settles the infant.

Even if you never took naps before, you will learn to extract super-human refreshment from a series of short naps throughout the day and night. Remember that the frequent awakenings are temporary because newborns only have newborn sleep patterns for as long as they are, well, newborns. Although this time FEELS like centuries while you are living it, in reality it lasts at most for about three months. After that, babies naturally lengthen time between feeds because their growth rate slows and thus they are able to stay asleep for longer periods of time. Sleep when the baby sleeps. Do not try to do anything “productive.”

Other tricks to fend off the effects of sleep deprivation, I learned as a pediatric resident. In those days I worked 36 hour shifts every fourth day for three years. I found seeing sunlight and smelling coffee helps ameliorate sleepiness. A shower FEELS like about two hours of sleep.

New parents need to force themselves to nap and put the rest of their household on hold. Hire a cleaning service if you can afford it, order take-out or eat breakfast cereal for dinner, and don’t worry about keeping up with laundry.

Sleep is an essential of life, just like food and water. If this post put you to sleep, then you are not getting enough. Sleep, that is. Hey, did you just see a sheep? Count it!

Julie Kardos, MD with Naline Lai, MD
©2011 Two Peds in a Pod®

Thrush: out of the mouth of babes

Cottage cheese like curds coat the inside of your baby’s tongue and inner cheeks. What is this white stuff that won’t wipe off? Not breast milk, not formula, it’s thrush.

Thrush, fancy medical name Oral Candidiasis, is caused by an overgrowth of yeast, called Candida. Although not painful, it may cause discomfort akin to having a film of cotton coating the inside of the mouth.

We all have Candida on our bodies. Usually we have enough bacteria on our bodies to suppress the growth of Candida, but in cases when there is less than usual bacteria such as in young babies or for kids who are on antibiotics, Candida can emerge. For older kids on inhaled steroids for asthma, failure to rinse out the mouth after medication use also promotes an environment conducive to thrush.

To treat thrush, we usually prescribe Nystatin, an anti-fungal/anti-yeast medication, which works topically. Parents apply the medicine to the inside of the baby’s mouth after feedings four times per day. Use Nystatin until thrush is no longer visible for 48 hours. A course takes one to two weeks to complete. An oral medication called fluconazole (brand name Diflucan) may also be prescribed.

Watch out. Thrush may be thriving on mom’s breasts or on pacifiers or bottle nipples. Mothers can apply the same medicine to their breasts after breast feeding. Scrub pacifiers, bottle nipples, and any other object that goes in to a baby’s mouth extra well with hot water and soap or use the dishwasher.

Thrush that persists despite proper treatment can signal an immune system problem. So if your child’s thrush is not resolving in the expected time, let your child’s health care provider know.

A newborn’s tongue may always look slightly white. This “coated tongue” in young babies could be residual breast milk or formula and does not need treatment. If you are not sure, bring him in to see his health care provider for proper diagnosis.

Julie Kardos, MD with Naline Lai, MD
©2011 Two Peds in a Pod®

Buckle up: the latest in car seat safety

I often pass a parent on her way out of my office carrying an infant in an infant car seat. As I stop to elicit a goodbye smile from the baby, I check to see that the car seat straps are buckled properly. I say to the parent, please make sure that the cross strap is across his chest, not down at his lap. And please tighten the shoulder straps; I should not be able to pinch the strap above his shoulders. These are too loose.

Car seats save many lives every year. After immunizations, they are the most effective way to prevent death in children, but car seats need to be used properly. Many families travel this time of year and that means it’s time to update your car seat safety knowledge.

Until recently, experts recommended that babies in car seats need to weigh at least 20 pounds AND be at least one year old until they could face forward. Newer recommendations say babies should stay rear facing in a car seat until two years old, or until they no longer fit facing backward. The reason for this change is that in a crash, children suffer fewer injuries when they face backward. Different car seat brands have different weight and height specifications so be sure to read the literature that comes with your car seat. If the seat fits well, the middle of the back seat is the best spot to install a car seat. Rear facing infant seats are the most difficult to install correctly. Luckily, many police stations and gas stations offer programs to check if car seats are installed properly. Check with your local police.

Children should remain in car seats as long as they correctly fit. For some kids this is age four years and for smaller kids this may be five or even six years. If your child is particularly tall or obese he may require a high-backed booster soon after age three. My friend had a tall child that unfortunately ended up in a car accident recently. Again, read the literature that comes with your car seat for the height and weight limit; this is more important than the age of your child. The more restraints, the safer the seat. Five point harnesses are safer than three point. After five years a car seat should be replaced. Usually the third born ends up with a new seat. Because of the risk of hairline cracks, also replace a car seat if it was in an accident.

When your child outgrows the car seat, he graduates to a booster. Again, remember the more restraints, the safer the seat. A high backed booster is preferable until your child outgrows it. Keep your child in his booster seat until he is tall enough for the chest strap of a car’s seatbelt to lie diagonally across his chest without hitting his neck and for the lap strap to lie straight across the bony parts of his hips, not his stomach. To provide neck support and minimize whip lash, his ears should not jut up past the top of the back of the booster or car headrest. Keep children 12 years old and younger in the back seat. The force of an air bag can harm a young child.

Parents can call 1-800-CARBELT to access the American Academy of Pediatrics car safety seat hot line for their more specific car seat questions.

To ingrain good car safety habits in your children, remember to be a role model and buckle up yourself 100 percent of the time, even if you are driving only next door. Your children are watching you.

Julie Kardos, MD with Naline Lai, MD
©2010 Two Peds in a Pod?

Addendum: Please note that the official updated car restraint policy of the American Academy of Pediatrics as of March 2011 include the above recommendations of staying rearfacing until age two years and avoiding riding in the front seat until at least age thirteen years. In addition, more specific guidelines about boosters were added: children should stay in a booster seat until the car’s seat belt fits properly, at the minimum height of 4’9″ and between 8-12 years of age.

Recognizing potential recalls – lessons from the drop-side crib ban

Graco was founded nearly 70 years ago, and Evenflo and Child Craft have been around even longer. In fact, most of the prominent baby supply manufacturers have been in the baby business for decades, so I am always appalled when their products are recalled. Haven’t they perfected the art of manufacturing safe baby products yet? Drop-down side cribs are the latest example in faulty designs. In the past year, manufacturers announced the recall of many drop side cribs. Ultimately, last week, the Consumer Product Safety Commission completely banned drop-down side cribs because they have been implicated in the deaths of at least 32 infants since 2001.

Recalls occur slowly. Here’s an example. My husband and I discovered some of the plastic pieces which held up the mattress support for our firstborn’s crib had cracked in half when we tried to set up the crib for our second born. Thinking we had used too much force to snap the pieces into place, we simply ordered more parts and put the crib together. Not until after my third child was born, five years after my first, did a recall on this crib go out. Other families experienced some of the pieces snapping while babies were in the cribs and the mattresses fell to the ground.

Through the years, I’ve noticed most recalls are only for a handful of reasons. Look at your children’s toys and equipment for these potential dangers before the recall occurs:

Head entrapment – The most common story is that the baby slides through a leg hole of a stroller or baby carrier and his neck gets stuck. A baby also may strangle when his neck is wedged between parts of a piece of equipment. This problem occurred with drop-down side cribs. The recommended width between crib rails is 2 3/8 inches (the width of a soda can) because a child is more likely to trap his head in any larger of an opening. Make sure there are no openings or potential openings larger than 2 3/8 inches.

Choking – Any part that can be pulled off and fit into a toilet paper tube is a choking hazard.

Restraint failure – Equipment is often recalled for inadequately restraining a baby, e.g. loose swing straps.

Lead ingestion – Lead needs to be consumed to cause poisoning so anything your baby chews on, including railings, are suspect. Lead check kits are readily available; the one I use is leadcheck.com.

If your child is injured because of faulty equipment, even with an injury which seems inconsequential, remember to report the problem to the consumer product safety commission and to the manufacturers.

Forget waiting for the recall. It could be years. Don’t buy something that makes you suspicious in the first place.

For more baby proofing hints, please see our post The In’s and Out’s of Baby proofing.

Naline Lai, MD with Julie Kardos, MD

“Tell me again how you came to get me”— discussing adoption

Today our dear friend, pediatrician, and mom, Wendy Lee shares insights and personal experience on how to tell your child he is adopted.

My husband and I had waited three long years for “the phone call” letting us know who would become our baby. Only three short weeks prior to boarding a plane to China, we got the news we would not be bringing just one beautiful girl home from China, but TWO. Twins. We should have known right at that moment we would begin living a life of improvisation.

As with all parenting, there are endless numbers of issues to tackle. One unique to families formed by adoption is how and when to tell your child he is adopted. There are many differing opinions on how to do this right, but all agree children should be told. It wasn’t so long ago that “the experts” deemed it to be psychologically damaging for a child to know about his adoption, and recommended not revealing this information. Thankfully, things have evolved, and we are faced not with if, but how, to best share the news about adoption.

Just as with many aspects of child rearing, it is often best to take cues from your child. If your child is younger, as were our girls (thirteen months old at the time we first met them), it is a good time to discuss adoption openly so it takes on a normalcy. We read a full library of children’s books to them about adoption, and show the girls pictures and videos of our trip over and again. We speak with them about our “Gotcha Day” (the day we got them and they got us). And we celebrate this day each year with some of the families who traveled to China and got their daughters on the same day. We talk about their birth parents in China and celebrate their heritage which, although similar to ours, is not exactly the same (I am Korean, and my husband is Cambodian).

We gave ourselves a little pat on the back one day when we told our children one of our friends was going to have a baby, and they in turn asked which plane the parents were going to ride to get the baby. They certainly thought adoption was a normal way to have a baby, but now we were faced with telling them other ways this could happen!

As children grow, they enter new stages which may require improvisation. A child’s age and temperament will guide you in your discussions regarding her birth and adoption. Some children will never have any questions and will be satisfied with the here and now. Others will have lifelong struggles to try and understand their history. At certain stages, children will want nothing else but to fit in. Being adopted, at that point, may set them apart from others and become something they will not want to advertise. While “Gotcha Day” right now is another opportunity for our girls to have cupcakes, presents, and company, at some point it may be a day that reminds them of what they have lost and how they are different from their friends. They may choose not to celebrate this day any longer. For some children, curiosity about their birth parents will be all-consuming and for others, it may just bring fleeting thoughts.

Regardless of the age, stage or temperament of your child, my advice is to be truthful, open, supportive and positive. As your child grows, you will share more information. At some point, probably during his/her adolescence, your child should be given all the information that is known regarding his or her history, even if it may be difficult to share. Discussions will move from simple explanations to potentially heart-wrenching, tear-ridden sessions where answers aren’t available. I think whatever reaction your child will have to this part of her past, the longer she has to process it, and the longer you have to deal with your child’s emotions in this regard, the better it will be for all.

Wendy C. Lee, MD, FAAP
General Pediatrician

Presently full-time mama to two beautiful twin girls adopted from China

Anxiously awaiting a third child from Korea

Medications and Breastfeeding

Breastfeeding moms often ask us what medications they can take and not adversely effect the baby. The most complete database we have found is LactMed . Hope you won’t have the need to refer to it too often.

Fact or fiction? A flu vaccine quiz for all teachers, babysitters, parents, and anyone else who breathes on children

A few days ago, I spoke with the faculty of a local early childhood education center about flu vaccine myths. See how you do on the true and false quiz I gave them:

I can tell when I am getting the flu and will leave work before I infect anyone.

False. According to the CDC (US Center for Disease Control), you are infectious the day before symptoms show up.

I never get the flu so it’s not necessary to get the vaccine.

False. Saying I’ve never had the flu is like saying, “I’ve never a car accident so I won’t wear my seat belt.”

I hate shots. I hear I can get a flu vaccine in a different form.

True. One flu vaccine, brand name Flu Mist, provides immunity when squirted in the nose. Non-pregnant, healthy people aged 2-49 years of age qualify for this type of vaccine.

I got the flu shot so I was healthy all year.

False. Perhaps it was the half-hour a day you added to your workout, or the surgical mask you wore to birthday parties, but your entirely healthy winter was not secondary just to the flu vaccine. The United States flu vaccine protects against several strains of flu predicted to cause illness this winter. This year’s vaccine contain both seasonal and the 2009 H1N1 strains. Your body builds up a defense (immunity) only against the strains covered in the vaccine. Immunity will not be conferred to the thousands of other viruses which exist. On the other hand, the vaccine probably did protect you from some forms of the flu, and two fewer weeks of illness feels great.

My friend got the flu shot last year, therefore, she was sick all winter.

My condolences. True, your friend was sick. But the answer is False, because the illnesses were not caused by the flu vaccine. Vaccines are not real germs, so you can’t “get” a disease from the vaccine. But to your body, vaccine proteins appear very similar to real germs and your immune system will respond by making protection against the fake vaccine germ. When the real germ comes along, pow, your body already has the protection to fend off the real disease. Please know, however, there is a chance that for a couple days after a vaccine, you will ache and have a mild fever. The reason? Your immune system is simply revving up. But no, the flu vaccine does not give you an illness.

I got the flu vaccine every year for the past decade. I will still need to get one this year.

True. Unfortunately, the flu strains change from year to year. Previous vaccines may not protect you against current germs.

I am a healthy adult and not at high risk for complications from the flu, so I will forgo the flu vaccine this year.

False. The flu vaccine is now recommended for everyone greater than 6 months of age. When supply is limited, targeted groups at risk for flu complications include all children aged 6 months–18 years, all persons aged ≥50 years, and persons with medical conditions that put them at risk for medical complications. These persons, people living in their home, their close contacts, and their CARETAKERS are the focus of vaccination.

Even if I get the flu, I’ll just wash my hands a lot to keep the germ from spreading. I have to come back to work because I don’t have much time off.

False, According to the American Academy of Pediatrics Report of the Committee on Infectious Diseases, the influenza virus can spread from an infected person for about a week after infection.

Yes, kids get sick from others kids, but as a parent who comes in contact with two children, an early childhood educator who comes in contact with ten children, an elementary school teacher who comes in contact with twenty children or a high school teacher who comes into contact with one-hundred children daily, you may end up the one who seeds your community with a potentially deadly illness. Right now, flu vaccine clinics are as plentiful as Starbucks. Hit that CVS or Walgreens on the way home, wander into your doctor’s or grab a shot while you get groceries. By protecting yourself from the flu, you protect the children you care for.

Naline Lai, MD with Julie Kardos, MD

Pump it up: breastfeeding and returning to work

Picture this: you are going back to work after a too-short maternity leave. Briefcase? Check. Lunch? Check. Breast pump? Check. Photo of your baby to put on your pump for inspiration? Check.

Many moms ask how to continue breastfeeding when they return to work. Because babies should receive breast milk or formula for at least their first year, here is how you can incorporate breastfeeding into your work routine:

Offer bottles by four weeks of age. Bottles can contain breast milk or formula, but you need to give your baby practice taking milk from a bottle by four weeks old. If you wait much longer, your baby will likely refuse the bottle. Have someone other than yourself give at least one bottle per day or every other day. In this way, your baby learns to accept nutrition from someone else.

Store breast milk using the simple and conservative “rule of twos.” Leave breast milk in a bottle at room temperature for no more than two hours, store breast milk in the refrigerator for no more than two days, and store in the freezer for no more than two months. If your baby has already sucked out of a breast milk bottle, that milk is only good for up to two hours. Remember to write the date on your milk storage bags and use the oldest ones first.

Now select from the following breast feeding menu, understanding that you might start with option 2 or 3 and then change to option 4. The best option is the one that works best for you and your baby.

Option 1: Continue to breast feed at work. This option works for moms who work from home, moms who have child care in their work setting, and moms close enough to dash home to breast feed during the day or who have caregivers willing to drive babies over to work for feedings.

Advantage: no pumping, no buying formula, no bottle washing. Disadvantage: may require some creative scheduling.

Option 2: Breast feed when home and pump and store breast milk at work. Have child care givers offer stored breast milk in bottles. This method allows moms to provide exclusively breast milk to their babies. Start pumping after the first morning feeding (or any other feeding that you feel you produce a bit more than your baby needs for that particular feeding) beginning when your baby is around four weeks old. Also pump if your baby happens to sleep through a feeding. Store this milk in two or three ounce amounts in your freezer. You can obtain breast milk freezer bags from lactation consultants and baby stores, or you can store milk in zip lock bags. As you continue to pump after the same feeding each day, your body will produce more milk at that feeding.

Once you have some breast milk stored and you are a few days out from returning to work, try pumping during the feedings you will miss while at work. Have someone else feed your baby breast milk bottles for these feedings. Finally, when you return to work, continue to pump at the same schedule and leave the stored breast milk for your child’s caregivers. Consider leaving some formula in case caregivers run out of breast milk. Remind them never to microwave the milk (this kills the antibodies in breast milk as well as creates a potential burn hazard) but rather to thaw the milk by placing in a hot water bath.

This method becomes easier as babies get older. Once babies start solid foods, they breast feed fewer times per day. Somewhere between six to nine months, your baby eats three solid food meals per day and breastfeeds four or five times per 24 hours. Thus, the number of times you need to pump decreases dramatically.

Advantage to this option: breast milk with its germ-fighting antibodies given through the first year and no expense of formula. Disadvantage: having to pump at work.

Option 3: Breast feed before and after work and give your baby formula while you are at work. If you do not pump while at work, your body will not produce milk at these times. If you work full time, then on weekends you might find it easiest on your body to continue your “work time” feeding schedule. If you choose this method, wean your baby from daytime breast feeding over that last week or so before returning to work. Suddenly going a long time without draining your breasts can lead to engorgement, subsequent plugged ducts, and mastitis.

Advantage: baby continues to receive breast milk. No need to pump at work. Disadvantage: you still have to wash bottles and have the added cost of formula.

Option 4: Breast feed until you return to work, then formula feed. Wean over the last week you are home with your baby to avoid engorgement and leaking while at work. Your baby still benefits from even a few weeks of breast milk.

Advantage: No need to incorporate pumping into your work schedule. Baby still gets adequate nutrition. Disadvantage: babies who are in childcare and exposed to many germs miss out on receiving extra antibodies in breast milk. However, weaning your baby off breast milk will not cause illness. Do what works for your family. Also, more expensive to buy formula and time-consuming to wash bottles.

Pumping should not take longer than 15 minutes if you’re pumping both breasts at the same time and can take as short as 7-10 minutes. Remember to wash your hands before pumping.

What kind of breast pump should you buy/rent? If you are in it for the long haul, we recommend the higher-end electric double pumps with adjustable suction. Ask the hospital nurses, your midwife, or your obstetrician for names of people who rent or sell pumps in your area.

Finally, remember that the calorie count and nutritional content of breast milk and formula are the same. So do NOT feel guilty if pumping does not pan out and you and end up giving some formula. Your baby is almost always going to be more efficient than a breast pump and some breasts just don’t produce milk well during pumping sessions. In contrast, some of my patients never got the hang of breast feeding and their moms pumped breast milk and bottle fed them for the entire first year. Dr. Lai and I have each had patients who refused to take a bottle at childcare but just waited patiently for their moms to arrive. These babies got what they needed by nursing throughout the night. The babies didn’t mind what time of day they ate. Just like many aspects of parenting, sometimes with breast feeding, you just have to “go with the flow.”

Julie Kardos, MD with Naline Lai, MD
2010 Two Peds in a Pod®